I tend to be an all or nothing girl.
If I’m going to work out, I would rather run stairs than take a leisurely yoga class. You’ll find me going hard with my trainer for an hour instead of taking an extra hour to watch TV. A lot of the time, this is a great thing.
Yet recently, my life has been settling down. Things are calmer, and a more relaxed view of working out only makes sense. So I have started walking.
Luckily I have my girl Mandy to motivate me to get out there and walk everyday, and I’ve really learned to love it.
Getting out and walking everyday is so good for me. It’s good cardio (albeit less rigorous than sprinting steps), good for the heart, and good for my soul. It gives me a chance to catch my breath and meditate.
And it’s good for Mandy, too!
What do you do to relax? Do you enjoy a nice walk?
One of my dearest friends used to urge me to “hold it lightly.” I would often hang up from our talks wondering exactly what she meant – what holding it lightly looked and felt like.
I think I understand now.
It’s simple really. Holding on tightly crushes, chokes the air out, stifles. It is desperate.
And desperate is not good.
Holding lightly acknowledges our want, yet frees us from our want. It allows for room, for air, for other choices. It is peaceful
And peaceful is good.
This week I have tried to hold it all lightly – the petty bothers; the silly disappointments; the promising news; the IRS notification – all of it.
When I am lighter, I am easier and life is easier.
Just a thought on this Friday. Have a relaxing weekend,
I thought it might be good for the (my!) soul to reflect on the past week and recall my favorite moments, in a weekly update called “Thursday Favorite.” It’s a practice in gratitude, and a chance to look back in the short term (because it’s that long-term look back that can be crazy making!).
This week has been eventful – good fortune is coming my way. Yet, two smaller moments come to mind.
It really is the small stuff.
A phone call with an old friend – we had worked together years ago – covered all the important life topics –raising kids, forgiveness, generosity, and where to get good legal help when you need it. I hung up feeling restored.
A perfectly ordinary walk home from the neighborhood coffee shop rendered me grateful. For some reason as I approached my house with Mandy the lunatic dog perched on the fence eagerly awaiting my arrival, I was overcome with a tremendous sense of gratitude. For the life I have and the life I have been able to live. Even my tiny corner house looked especially cheerful and welcoming to me. I felt not an ounce of scarcity.
(Here’s me with my lunatic in the backyard. Love my girl.)
What are your favorite moments of the week? It’s always good to look back over the last few days and take a deep breath. Share your favorite bits of your week with me, please!!